Dating at home alone

Lisa asked me to arrange another date with her 1st partner. It had been a while since she had been with him because of distance and schedules, but he was very good with her and she wanted him again. He is about 10 years younger than her, and is very good at satisfying her needs. He was the first real planned meeting we had after she started seeing other men, their first meeting is described here http://diaryofarealhotwife.blogspot.com/2011/04/meeting-man-closer-to-home.html .

We had planned to meet him at a local hotel on Saturday night, but that fell through when we were invited to a family party out of state the next day. Disapointed, but undaunted, Lisa suggested I attend the party with the kids and she stay home and have her date as planned. She said since we would be out all day, she could have him over the house rather than go to the hotel. I was a bit taken aback by this, but we knew him pretty well and I relented when she explained this would be a comfortable thing for them both.

The afternoon soon came, Lisa took a bath and as has become her custom, she had me shave her for her lover. She brought out a few outfits and told me to pick one. They were all short sexy dresses and I picked a blue one she had never worn before. She put it on and it looked spectacular on her, she put on a pair of fishnet stocking and boots and was very excited for her date.

It was soon time for us to leave, I had butterflies in my stomach, not knowing how this would play out. A few minutes before we left,  Lisa told me to get the video camera and meet her in the bedroom. She told me to pull down my pants, She pulled out the CB3000 chastity lock and told me she wanted me to wear it. I protested, but to no avail. She insisted, and after a few minutes, she had it on me, locked it and put the key around her wrist.

I asked her to text me so that i would know she was alright, to which she agreed. She said she would try to video the date for me, but she wasn't very good at that since I always worked the camera. A few minutes later, I was on the road, the kids in the back seat, my dick locked and my wife was anxiously waiting for another man to come and fuck her.

A few minutes after i arrived at the party, Lisa txted me a photo she had taken of herself, dressed for him just before he arrived.  Moments later another text, saying he had arrived. My dick strained in the chastity device, when I got that message. Thinking back on it I realized this is exactly as she had planned it. For the rest of the afternoon and eveneing I recieved more texts, each briefly describing where they were and what was happening, but no details.

 

 

A few hours went by with no word from her, until finally I get a series of texts 'We are going to the bedroom', 'I'm getting fucked, I have your key', all meant to tease and excite me while I was locked, and at the same time let me know that she was ok.

On the way home she called me and since the kids were in the back seat, we had to keep our conversation to a minimum. She said he was still their but they were done, she said she would call when he left to be certain it was ok for us to come in the house.

When I arrived home we got the kids off to bed quickly and she brought me to the bedroom, where the room was still lit by candles and there was a wine bucket, and empty champagne glasses on the dresser. The video camera was on a tripod near the bed, and our other still camera was on the floor.
She handed the camera to me and told me he had taken a few photos for me, "take a look...".

 

I scrolled through the photos, pictures of Lisa, her dress hiked up, pics of her in her bra and panties, and posing for him in a few different positions. Then, photos of her laying down, her panty pushed aside. Then, more photos, her panties pushed asside, semen clearly visible on her pussy lips. Then A photo of her actually spreading her lips, his cum had splatter her and I  thought I could see it inside her as well. She told me he took the photos after they fucked for over 2 hours. I had to ask, but dredded the likely answer...Did he come insider her?  She told she was sorry, yes, he seemed to have lost control and "he just exploded in there". The photos bear this out.

She hiked her skirt and laid on the bed and said 'now clean me up'.  Knowing his sperm was inside my wife was more than I could take. She pushed my head between her thighs, and told me to lick her. I felt somewhat repulsed by this but at the same time I wanted to get his semen out of her, I could not bear the thought of it swimming inside her as she lay beside me in the bed he had fucked her in.

Here is a short version of what happened that day, no lie...

You can see the entire video here: Lisa cages hub, then has a friend in our bed

Chastized, nuetered and cuckolded

Self portrait, dressed for her date

A few men had contacted me in an effort to meet Lisa as well as  Many  "Wannabe's" - guys who wanted their wives to cuckold them. I really did not understand their desire for this and I always cautioned them on this. If you have been reading this block you know that what has transpired with my wife and I over the past years was not my doing, Lisa initiated this and she is the reason I'm cuckold. I am what I call a "reluctant cuckold". While there are now many exciting aspects of this for me, I have never had much control over how this has progressed. Lisa calls the shots, not me and in fact I have tried many times to reign this in to no avail. It seems that once I gave in and accepted Lisa's needs for extramarital sex, that I also gave up control over how this would evolve. 

Many people who contacted me through yahoo IM wanted to see photos and videos of a real cuckold relationship. I would send short clips from the videos I had taken, or I would post them on some of the yahoo groups from time to time. But I could see that people were fascinated by this and one suggested I post full length clips on a site called clips4sale. I posted a few longer clips there after editing out faces and the response to these posts was very positive. I continue to post videos of our journey there and I feel like I am doing something positive by allowing people to see what it's really like to be in a cuckold relationship. So that is how and why the clips4sale page evolved.

One of the husbands on yahoo IM was a classic "wannabe". His wife had no interest in being with other men, yet he had an obsession with it and wanted to know how he can get his wife into it. My advice was, is, and will always be, be careful what you wish for. This is not something to enter into lightly and it is not something I recommend to anyone. Cuckolding must be initiated by the wife. Once it happens, it changes everything. By accepting it you risk relinquishing  your place as your wife's lover. She sees other men as the object of her sexual desires - not you.

Through our chat's this "wannabe" seemed to begin to live out his fantasy of being cucked vicariously through our videos and our chats, where I would describe Lisas' various meetings with guys. One day he suggested that he would like to buy a Chastity device for me. I had no idea what it was, so he sent a link and I read through it. I told him I would be an idiot to have something like that, and that it would make this worse for me than it already was. The thing was over $100, so I thought he was crazy for wanting to buy this but he insisted and eventually i agreed just to get him to stop asking. While I accept my lot as a cuckold husband, I sometimes regret accepting this 'gift', as it effectively neutered me, gradually, in my wife's eyes over the next several years.

My intention was to take the device and never use it but unfortunately, on the day it arrived I was out of town and Lisa received and opened the package. To my great embarrassment, when I got home, Lisa asked me what it was and so I had to explain the whole thing to her. Her reaction was surprising, she was fascinated by it and told me to put it on.

I reluctantly tried to get it on. As I struggled with it, Lisa was reading the instructions. The device is called a CB3000. It required that my balls be inserted through a ring and my penis be inserted in a sleeve, all of which is designed to keep me from masturbating or having sex. I was totally humiliated as I struggled to put this on, but Lisa was all excited. Once it was on she inserted the lock that came with it and said something like, "this is going to be fun".  She said she wanted me to wear it next time she played.

Locked, first time chastity

first time chastity

So this was clearly something that empowered Lisa and it gave her greater control of me sexually - all of which was an aphrodisiac for her. True to her word, from that point forward, whenever she met someone I was compelled to wear the chastity device.

Over the next several months Lisa was quite active, and she was inspired to cuckold me further by this device.

Her next date was with an old friend who was one of the first men to bed her. She met him alone, invited him to our house while I was out at a family function.  They video taped some of it and took a few photos. I will write about that in my next post which I hope will be soon.
In the meantime here is the link to the clips4sale page if you want to read a bit about it:
Lisa cages hub, then has a friend in our bed

All video's of Lisa with her bulls can be found here: Diary-of-a-real-hotwife


She sent this photo showing my key around her wrist - just  after her date  arrived

While I'm away, Lisa plays

Around this time I was traveling extensively for work and Lisa was often alone during the week, working and taking care of the household chores and of course the kids. I was on the west coast alot and would always call home each evening to see how things were and catch up on current events.

Lisa was still working at the time and although her job was quite demanding she did have a great deal of flexibilty so she sometimes worked at home rather than going to the office. One evening I called home,  Lisa, she was in bed relaxing. We chit chatted for a bit and I sensed something was weird. A moment or two later, she said, "were your ears ringing this afteroon?...". I had a feeling something was up and she was about to confirm it.

She went on to tell me she worked from home today, and that "Mike" stopped by the house. "Mike" was a former collegue of hers who went on to other things, but had kept in touch with Lisa since leaving the company they both worked for. She explained they had been in touch via email and he was in the area and she invited him over to have lunch. She said he brought a bottle of wine...they ate and drank, she hoped I didn't mind...  I asked the question that I already knew the answer to, "Did anything else happen?"

She told me she needed to use my office computer to look something up for him.  While she was sitting at my desk he began to rub her back, and one thing led to another...She told me she never intended anything to happen, and it was totally unplanned and she would explain when I returned home. She hoped I was not upset.

When I returned home that Friday evening she spilled about what had happened earlier in the week. While she was sitting at my desk, Lisa had told him her back was stiff and he replied that he gives great massages and began massaging her back. Soon his hands were wandering past her back, to her waist, and around her neck. He unbuttoned her blouse and kissed her, she leaned over on my desk and he lifter her skirt.

In the end he said they had sex un my desk, she told me she was very horny and could not stop, especially after having a fwe glasses of wine. Since he was married and Lisa had met his wife, this was totally out of character for her. She never did anything with married men, so I assumed it was the wine tipped things in his favor.

While I was upset, I told her that I understood how this could happen, but we had an agreement that I would always be with her when she is with someone and that it seemed like that is no longer going to be the case. She just smiled, she kissed me, handed me our camera and said "it was as if I was there". Then she told me she had him take a few pictures - for me - and if I didn't want to see them she would just delete them.

When I looked at the photos it was apparent that He had fucked her on my desk, from behind and had cum all over her ass. Every time I sit at that desk I can't help but visualize this guy fucking my wife while I was on the other side of the county.

Although she said she would never do it again, he did end up fucking her again, several months later under similar circumstances. However, she took him to our bed that time and did not take any photos.

Here are a few of the photos.

The massage

Lisa was quite stressed with the pressures of work so I bought her a gift certificate for a spa that Christmas. She decided to use it one day a few months later so she called for an apointment - She said they asked her if she wanted a male or female massuese and she told the receptionist she preferred a male but it wasn't that important. She left the house and returned about 3 hours later. When she came home she had a mischevous look on her face. She began to tell me about her afternoon.

She said her massuese (John) was a 32 year old who was very nice and very attractive. The massage started very normally, she was naked on the table, covered by a towel, John began by asking her what areas he should concentrate on and what she liked etc. He began massaging her and Lisa said he did a great job. As he worked on her body, Lisa told me she started to feel aroused, the towel accidentally moved, exposing her body to him. He appologized and reached for the towel, Lisa told him that she is not shy and she is very comfortable with her body.

She said the massage progressed normally, except he was now focusing on her private areas. He massaged her thighs, then her ass, and she felt herself getting excited. When she turned over, he massaged her breasts, then moved down. She said they did not speak, but she said she could tell he was getting aroused by his breathing. His hands moved to her pussy and he began to stimulate her. She said a few minutes later his fingers were inside her and she came very quickly.

When the massage ended, they talked a bit, she told him she was married but she was free. It seems he lived in a nearby town and they agreed they would try to get together again soon. she gave him her email address and told him to get in touch with her.

By the time she got home, she had an email from him. They went back and forth a few times but never were able to set a date to meet. A few months went by and she decided she would make an appointment for another massage, this time she asked specifically for John.

The day of the massage, she took a bath before hading to the spa. Before she left, as she was getting dressed, I noticed that she had shaved her pussy, I asked her about this and she told me she had asked for John at the spa...then she finished getting dressed and left.

She called me a few hours later and told me she had a surprise for me me when she gets home. She came home a few minutes later and I asked her how her massage was...She said it was wonderfull then told me to come upstairs to the bedroom with her.

I asked what happened? Did anything happen? She grinned and just got undressed. It was mid-afternoon and the room was well lit, she lay on the bed naked, she spread her legs and told me John gave her the BEST massage she ever had. Then I saw the dried white stains on her belly. She saw that my eyes had noticed this and she grinned and nodded her head, then told me to lay down on top of her. I began to get aroused, and she soon guided me inside her. I remember thinking that Her pussy was soaked like I had never felt before and I slid in with absolutely no resistance.She allowed me to fuck her as she told me all of what had transpired that afternoon...

Lisa told me the massage started like last time but this time she took the towel off at the very bginning, his hands quickly went to her breasts and he began to kiss her. She told me she felt his hardness through his pants, she unzipped him and he dropped his pants. She said his cock was rock hard and quite huge, she sucked his cock and soon he pulled a condom from his pants pocket, put it on and then mounted her in the missionary position on the massage table. She said she had a hard time remaining quiet as he fucked her deep and slow. As things heated up he said he wanted to fuck her in the doggy position, so she got off the table and he fucked her again in this position. She said he made her cum and then he laid her on her back again and fucked her some more, until it was obvious he was about to cum. She said He pulled out, he pulled off the condom and then came powerfully all over her tits and belly.

At that moment I also came all over her, and she seemed pleased with that. She told me she would be going for more massages with him and they agreed they would work out the dates through emails. I guess he eventually left the spa because when she called and asked for him a few weeks later, they said he was no longer with them. they exchanged emails a few times but I guess that was the end of it because she has not heard from him since.

Young black fucks her again July 2007, this time in my bed

After her first meeting with him Lisa wanted more of his BBC. She told me to invite him over one saturday night when we had the house to ourselves. After a few glasses of wine, they went to our bedroom where he fucked my wife in our bed for several hours.

Watchin my wife getting fucked in our bed was like a cold, humiliating slap in the face for me. It brings it home in a way I can't describe. I always felt the marital bed was place for a man and wife. By taking other men to our bed, Lisa was sending me a powerfull message..."YOU ARE A CUCKOLD HUSBAND"

Here are a few photos from that night, you can see the whole video here:

Lisa fucks a black man in our bed

Lisa's sexual desires 2007

At this point we are still back around 2007 and I'm realizing that posting the details of each of Lisa's adventures will take a very long time.
From 2007 - 2010 Lisa was very active, and there were many men, I will post them in the chronological order in which they fucked her.


Lisa fucks a black man Feb2007
Yes lisa likes her black men. Lisa has always been attracted to muscular classy young black men and the young man in this clip had been in touch with me for several years trying to arrange a meeting with Lisa. In Feb we had a free night and we met at our usual hotel lounge nearby. We had checked in several hrs before we were to meet him and she had me shave her completely in anticipation of what was to cum. We went to the bar to meet him around 8 and they immediately hit it off. Before long the bar got loud and crowded and Lisa told me she wanted to leave - with him - and go back to our room. She had me pour her a drink and went left the room to put on her outfit which was a green garter, hose and bra. When she emerged her new friend was ready and waiting. They start with kssing and petting then he gives her pussy and good licking and fingers. Before he fucks her he has her suck him while he kneels and stradles my wifes face. Then he fucks the hell out of her, first missionary and then doggy position. She tells him to cum on her ass but he has alot of energy and has my wife mount him and ride his BBC for a while. I was allowed to video tape and take many photos (including the one to the right) while he fucked my wife in this position. She moans and cums many times with this impressive young man. He fucked her from 9:30 till around 3 AM

Here are the links to the full videos and a short sample
Lisa fucks a black man Feb2007

Lisa fucked by BBC Feb 2007 - part2
It's obvious my wife loves her BBC. This is the second part of her first meeting with this young black man in Feb. In round 2 I bring her a drink as he spreads her creamy white thighs and licks my wife's pussy to get her ready. He gets on top of her and fucks her long hard and deep just the way she needs it. His bbc plunges in and out of Lisa's married pussy as she moans with pleasure. I think the hottest part is when he is on top of her and wraps his arms around my wifes thighs and puts his big hands under her thick ass. He's clearly excited by this and plows her deeply in this position for several minutes. With each stroke he pulls her hips up towards him, and it's clear he's in complete control of my wife as he penetrates her deeply. Later he cums on Lisa's juggs and she spreads and massages his seed all over her big white tits as she smiles in appreciation. They lay in bed sroking each other, oblivious to my pressence even as I reach out and touch and carress her ass. She later told me it was this meeting where she realized how much she is turned on by black men and how nothing is more exciting to her. She will never be the same.

A black man in my bed

We seemed to be getting into a comfortable routine. Every few months Lisa would give me some sort of indication that her labido was rising and I knew that meant - I needed to arrange something for her. It was usually unspoken but it was always clear what she wanted. She was sparing my feelings by not comming right out and telling me, but I knew she was ready and wanting some action, and I knew that if I didn't supply her with it she would somehow find it herself...as she had done before.

During the time frames between each meeting, I would be chatting with men who had either seen her photos or had heard about her through our ad postings on swing sites. We considered this our pool of eligible suitors, men who had sent photos, Lisa had seen the pics and approved, and I had chatted with them and felt they were a good fit for her.

I told her I would arrange a meeting for her and asked her if she had a preference based on who we had in the 'stable', (which is what she called our list of potentials).Lisa made it clear that size matters and the young men were the most energetic and long lasting. She asked if 'Dave' was available, (he's the 30 year old black man with the 11 inch cock - see our earlier post to read about her first meeting ). .

I contacted him and arranged a date to get together. We were going to meet him at the same hotel lounge but on the morning of the date, both of our kids were going to be away for the weekend so she told me to cancel the hotel and invite him to our home.

That afternoon, Lisa had me shave her for him and told me to pick out what he might want her to wear, which I did. I picked him up at the train station in the early evening, around 6PM. Lisa was home waiting for us, getting herself ready. In the car he told me he 'was going to fuck my wife good', and that she is his slut, that she loves his big black cock. Basically, talking shit and verbally humiliating me as we drove back to our house.

At a red light, He unzipped his pants in the car and pulled out his enormous black dick, telling me he's going to hit places in her that I've never been. The size of his cock is almost freakish, and he tells me 'your wife is going to cum all over this BBC'.


When we arrive, Lisa greets him with a kiss, we drink some wine, Lisa is already a bit tipsy. They make out in the kitchen then she tells me to get some towels as they are going in the hottub. They take the towels and go outside, I can see from the kitchen window that they both take their clothes off and get into the hottub.
They are making out, he sits on the step, I see my wifes head between his legs, I know she is sucking his cock. She bends over the edge of the hottub, he stand behind her but it starts to rain and they soon return to the house.

Wrapped in towels, once in the house, she tells me they are going upstairs, and that I should bring a bottle of champagne up for them in a few minutes. When I approach the room he is laying in my bed, Lisa is sucking his cock. She looks at me and asks if I brought the champagne, which I did. She says, 'Where are the champagne glasses?' I told her I thought the wine glasses would be fine, but she did not agree and asked me to bring them proper champagne glasses. When I return with the glasses Lisa is still sucking his dick, she lifts her head long enough to tell me to pour the champagne, then goes back to blowing him.




I handed him the champagne glass and poured it. Now try to imagine how surreal and humiliating this was for me. He is laying in my bed, my wife is sucking his BBC and I am pouring champagne for him and her. At this point I am excited but I realize that I am being cuckolded by both of them.

She continued to blow him for a while, he wanted her to deep throat him but there was no possible way that could happen with his size, Lisa gagged a bit as he forced his cock as deep as he could into her mouth. A few minutes later he turned her on her back and she told me to put lube on her pussy. As I did this, he was positioned between her legs, his cock rigid and ready to enter. She told me to put lube on his cock, when I hesitated and he told me that for his BBC they will both need lube.
I finally summoned the nerve and did it.



He fucked her in many positions that night. Lisa orgasmed more than I have ever seen her with any man she had been with. They continued to have sex until Lisa needed a rest, she had had quite alot to drink and was a bit drunk really. He was still horny for her, running his hands all over her and telling her seh wanted her to suck his bbc again. Then she told him 'I need a rest, honey, come over here..., you're not tired are you?'

She held his black cock and stroked it gently, she looked at me and said quietly, 'Do it'. I knew what she meant but could not respond, she looked at me again and so 'go ahead, do it, I want to watch you do it'. She pulled me towards her, she stroked him and gently pushed my head and said, 'open your mouth'. The rest is a blur, it seemed to last a long time, but it was probably only a few minutes before she let me up. I do vividly remember feeling her hand on the back of my head, pushing me down as he lay there telling her to 'choke me with it'. To which she said in a sympathetic voice, 'No, I don't want to choke him with it', she really sounded like she felt bad for me. I was in a state of shock I suppose thoughout this time.
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Soon she was ready for more, he fucked her until about 3am, she orgasmed many times and he held out until the end, finally pulling out of her and positioning himself at her face and unloading in her mouth. She willingly opened her mouth and swallowed his seed, then she told me they both needed some sleep. They were sprawled out on the bed but she told me to come lay next to her, 'Dave' was on the other side of her half sleeping. I layed down but the sheets were wet and uncomfortable. When I mentioned that to Lisa, she said, 'why don't you go sleep in the guest room then?'

As I left the masterbedroom she told me to close the door behind me and she said she loved me. I barely slept that night but finally managed to get a few hours in.

The next morning at 8-9am I went to the kitched to make coffee and walked by my bedroom. It's then that it hit me...there is black man sleeping in MY bed with MY wife. There were no sounds so I just went ahead and made coffee for us all.

A few minutes later I hear moaning and banging coming from upstairs. I grabbed my camera and went upstairs, the moaning and banging getting loader as I approached the bedroom. I gently opened the door, I see lisa laying on her back, on top of Dave, who is also on his back, her legs are spread, his cock is pumping furiously in and out of her as he fondles her big breasts.


He continues to fuck her for another 30 minutes and finally explodes all over her face again. A while later, As I drove him to the train station, he told me how my wife is his slut now and she loves his big cock.

The whole night was a bit of a blur but I do know I had never seen my wife as satisfied with a sex partner as she was with him. When I came home Lisa was waiting in bed for me, she told me she loves how he fucked her so hard and deep and that he made her cum countless times. She told me she wanted me to try to make her cum again, she spread her legs and told me to taste her, I could taste him on her pussy and quickly moved away. She told me to fuck her, and as I entered she said, 'Can you feel how stretched I am?' 'He fucked me good, now you do it'. Her pussy was slick and loose, it was not the way it normally is, his pumelling had actually physically changed the shape of her pussy, needless to say I came in just a minute or 2. She later told me that this night was one of her favorite and most exciting sexual experiences.