Lisa goes on a business trip

At this point (around 1989) I had no idea that Lisa had fucked by our family acquaintance. Lisa went back to work after our first child was 3 years old and was enjoying her job and friends she made through work. With work and a young child neither one of us had much energy left for sex but it seemed to me that when we did have sex it was good for us both. But I may have been wrong about that, read on...

With her job, She would occasionally need to travel for meetings. Lisa left on a Thursday for a 3 day meeting out of town. We talked on the phone when we could usually in the evenings and all seemed normal. Saturday was the last night and she was going out with people from across the country for drinks after a company dinner.

Drinks were at a bar near the hotel. Lisa called me around 10 PM and said she was having a good time and would call me when she got to the hotel room. That call never came. She came home Sunday afternoon as planned and seemed tired and worn out from the trip. I didn't think much of till I noticed she was very quiet over the next few days. When I finally asked her what was wrong she told me to sit down, "I need to tell you something".

She began by saying she was sorry, I knew this was not going to be good...
She went on to tell me why she hadn't called Saturday night. She did not go back to her hotel room. Seems when she went back to the hotel and she stopped at the bar. She met a man and had several drinks with him. She drank far too much and went back to his room. She said it plainly after a long pause..."He fucked me".

I was shocked and hurt by this apparent act of betrayal. Lisa asked for forgiveness and said she did not want our marriage to end. We were in fact very happy together and still are. She said she was drunk, but she also had desires that override her normally good judgement. She said she had felt unfulfilled at times, sexually and she also felt she was no longer sexually attractive. This man she met changed how she felt about herself and she said that it was a positive thing for her. Would I, could I understand?

I paused and told her I did understand but I needed time to digest all this. After several days, we were getting back to normal and she asked me how I felt...Did I understand that this was not a threat to us or our marriage, and could I live with that? I told her I did understand that she had needs like everyone and I did not want our marriage to end at all. We agreed that when she had these feelings she would talk to me about them and we would find a way to talk through it.

We hugged and then she said "I felt like a slut the next morning but when I was with him he made me feel like a woman again". I could tell she liked that feeling and I asked her if she would do it all over again...My wife looked at me and said "Yes, I think I would. He made me cum and it's been a long time since I've had an orgasm like that". She went on to explain how he was very well endowed and how she liked that feeling. She said I was a great lover but his size and the sheer excitement of being with someone who wanted her just for sex brought her to a new place sexually.

In the end we agreed we would talk about it whenever she had these desires. I planned a vacation getaway for just the 2 of us a few months later...Indeed we would be talking about it very soon...and often...