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Monday, June 13, 2011

the rules of play according to Lisa



So I'm now realizing that my wife wants to see other men. She does not want to have an affair, she just seems to want the sex, and the excitement that being with another man brings her. I'm slowly coming to grips with this, and while I don't necessarily like the idea, I know our marriage and family is otherwise very fulfilling for us both - it's just something we are going to have to deal with. Lisa told me she enjoyed having me watch her, she felt it added to the excitement both she and her partner felt and that she felt secure with me knowing what was going on. She felt it was not cheating, since I was there and I was aware of what she was doing. That was very important to her since she would not want to be one of those women who cheats and lies to her husband.



She asked if I was ok with being involved, if I would mind helping her find suitable men for her to meet. She said it would be good for me since I would have a role in it rather than just a wittness to it. I said that it might be a good thing for me, that I would try it. Lisa said 'You know what I like' see if you can find it for me. She suggested I place some ads on swinger sites and describe what 'we' were looking for...she went on to tell me what she wants and needs:




  • She only wants men with large cocks, thickness and girth are very important to her, length secondary but also important. She said 8 inches or more is what she likes.



  • She only wants young in shape men who are attracted to older women



  • Only men who are comfortable fucking her with me present



  • She said race was not an issue but she was not attracted to asian men



  • She does not like hairy men



  • She prefers muscular men



So I placed a few ads and a photo of her and we recieved hundreds of replies. I began chatting with some of them on yahoo trying to weed out the jerks from men I thought my wife would be interested in. A few months later, we had several men who we thought were suitable but no time to meet.




We did however set aside time for a much needed vacation to the carribbean. Just Lisa and I, no kids or responsibilities. I really was looking forward to spending some one on one time with my wife, but while we spent alot of quality time together, my wifes insatiable needs once again took over...as you will find out in my next post




4 comments:

  1. i look forward to seeing more post from your trip, your details are great

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  2. Your wife Lisa is a true Hot Wife. It's good that you realize her needs and have come to accept it. I think the sting you feel of her desires for other men will always be there, but will always be tempered by your love for her. I look forward to reading more of her exploits.

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  3. Great blog so far. I would to hear a bit more on your emotions being a cuckold right at the beginning (any real difficulties?) and how it is now. I would also really appreciate it if Lisa did the same and the emotions she felt bringing her to the conclusion that you were not enough to satisfy her sexually.

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  4. We did however set aside time for a much needed vacation to the carribbean. 2012 nike nfl jerseys Just Lisa and I, no kids or responsibilities. I really was looking forward to spending some one on one time with my wife, but while we spent alot of quality 2012 nike style jerseys time together, my wifes insatiable needs once again took over...as you will find out in my next post

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